THE PROGRAM

Part II: The Program

by Janet Rifkin, Ph.D.

So Scott began to work with me. He started by asking me to articulate the goals I had for myself. I had a lot of trouble answering his questions. I knew a few things: I wanted to stand up straighter, lose what I saw as the “humpification” in my upper back and lose the 8 pounds I had gained during the 8 years I was working as Dean of a College in Massachusetts. However, what I really wanted to talk about were my fears-my fear of not having a professional identity, my fear of looking like an old bag and my fear of falling into the abyss of the Grand Canyon where I was going in 10 days time.

Clearly, my most immediate need was to get ready for my upcoming rafting trip which involved a 7 ½ mile hike down the Grand Canyon carrying a 30 pound pack and daily hikes climbing over boulders and traversing narrow ledges. Scott had his work cut out for him. His first challenge was to stop me from chatting incessantly. People tell me I ask too many questions. My sons call me “the interrogator” and given that I once was a trial lawyer, cross-examination comes naturally. During our first two sessions, Scott let me chatter. Maybe it helped him to get to know the person, as well as the body he was training? Maybe it was to make me feel comfortable with him? Maybe it was because he was entertained? Whatever it was, by session three, he began by telling me that I wasn’t allowed to talk so much. I laughed but he was serious. More importantly, he was right. I needed to focus on what he was trying to teach me. Talking too much was a way to protect myself from feeling awkward and uncomfortable.

So Scott worked with me to open my hips-to move them front to back, side to side and to “twist.” I did this as I was stretching my calves and my Achilles tendon. Remarkably, the bump I had in my right Achilles got smaller and the pain that I was feeling abated. Every session with Scott ends with body work which “opens” the tight areas. To be honest, the work he did on my sore Achilles wasn’t a barrel of laughs. It hurt-a lot. But it worked and I now look forward to the end of every session when he works on me, finds tightness I didn’t even know I had and releases areas of tension and strain that have building for years.  But we also did more than this. He started me on a regimen of lunges, of abdominal crunches, of pullies, of push-ups and more. He even let me start talking again-of asking questions most of which he answered. He gave me a plan for what I should to on the days that I wasn’t working with him, most of which focused on building up cardio-vascular capacity.

After 10 days, I felt mentally prepared for my rafting trip. I was excited and no longer felt I was going to fall into the depths of the Canyon. My husband I left LA early on the morning of September 26 and got to Flagstaff 8 hours later. The next morning, we met our group and headed to the South Rim where we would begin our hike the next day at 4:30 am and where I was eager to start putting Scott’s program to the test.

This entry was written by scrawford, posted on November 16, 2009 at 10:40 pm, filed under Bodywork, Experiences, Fitness, Hiking, Life is Fitness, Outdoors, Pilates, Santa Barbara and tagged Bodywork, Cardio, Pilates, rafting, SOMA GET FIT, training. Leave a comment or view the discussion at the permalink.

CHANGING RELATIONSHIPS: TO WORK, BODY AND MIND

Part 1: The Beginning

by Janet Rifkin, Ph.D.

On June 30, 2009, I retired from a 35 year career at major public university. I started my life there at the age of 27 and left at 62. While I can say that I accomplished many good things during my professional life, I felt tired and cynical and found it harder and harder to believe in what I was doing. I had been the Dean of a big college for 8 years, I had helped many people start their academic careers, I had taught many hundreds of students, built relationships with faculty, students and alumni, raised money, built interesting programs and more. But I was finding it harder and harder to believe that what I had done and was doing had much value. I had seen too many people get to this point in their careers, but couldn’t let go because of fear of loss of status, power and fear of a future without the professional identity that had given their lives meaning and security. I knew it was time to make a change, but like others before me, I was uneasy and conflicted. I had several things going for me that helped me embrace this moment of change. I have a husband who wasn’t conflicted and wanted us to change our relationship to work and place and pursue adventures that we had imagined; we have a son, daughter-in –law and 15 month old granddaughter who were living 3000 miles away in Los Angeles and even though another son is in NYC, the pull was strong to come out west; and we are lucky enough to have the means to live more than decently. So on August 20, 2009, we packed up our car and headed to LA.  While we were both feeling a sense of liberation and excitement, we also realized that we had no idea how we were going to organize our lives on a daily basis. We did however know two things. First, we had signed up for a 9 day rafting trip down the Colorado River which would require us, among other things, to hike down the Grand Canyon with 30 lbs packs for 7 and ½ miles. Second, that while both of us were relatively active, we wanted-and needed to find trainers who could help us get ready for this challenging adventure.

I found Scott Crawford.  I don’t think Scott knew exactly what he was getting into when you started working with me. What he did know was that I had two and one half weeks to prepare for the trip. What he also saw was a woman who couldn’t touch her toes, whose hips are extremely tight, whose right Achilles tendon was swollen and sore, whose hamstrings are like concrete and whose shoulders were hunched over and knotted. What I knew from the moment I started working with him is that he believed in my ability to change my body. Maybe more importantly, he was intent on helping me to change my attitude.

This entry was written by scrawford, posted on November 10, 2009 at 12:53 pm, filed under Bodywork, Fitness, Life is Fitness, Pilates, Santa Barbara and tagged Bodywork, Cardio, Experiences, Fitness, Personal Training, Pilates, SOMA GET FIT. Leave a comment or view the discussion at the permalink.